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Praise for
Slaying the Dragon

SLAYING THE DRAGON is a crucial read for parents, teachers, grandparents, and everyone who makes policies about young men. Bret Stephenson, a noted authority in adolescent male development, begins his exciting book by explaining how our cultural erasure of an organized and ritualized male adolescence has done great harm to our children. Then he re-invents rites of passage and the rituals of male adolescence to fit our contemporary age. Stephenson is masterful in his presentation of how to help boys "slay the dragon" and thus find a contributive, healthy and successful manhood. I highly recommend this book!"
--Michael Gurian, Author of FINE YOUNG MEN, THE WONDER OF BOYS and
THE WONDER OF GIRLS

"[Slaying the Dragon] builds a much needed bridge between contemporary knowledge and the wisdom of indigenous elders. By utilizing tools that are familiar to the western experience and infusing them with ancestral spiritual wisdom you are inviting people to traverse the distance from the limitations of the known to the vast resources of the unknown."
--Malidoma Somé, Author OF WATER AND THE SPIRIT-Ritual, Magic, and Initiation in the
Life of an African Shaman; RITUAL: Power, Healing, and Community
, and THE HEALING WISDOM OF AFRICA: Finding Life Purpose Through Nature, Ritual, and Community

"Bret Stephenson takes a hard look at how we are raising boys and explores
how ancient wisdom and traditional practices can be used to help adolescent
males become healthy young men and active members of the community."

Aaron Kipnis--Author of Angry Young Men; Knights Without Armor; Gender War-Gender Peace

“A brilliant and practical resource and guide for stewarding adolescent boys into responsible leadership and manhood…a must for parents, teachers, leaders, and managers.”
--Angeles Arrien, Cultural Anthropologist, Author of THE FOUR-FOLD WAY and SIGNS OF LIFE

"Society needs to know these ideas and practices."
Ralph Metzner--Author of Maps of Consciousness, The Well of Remembrance, The Unfolding Self...

This book fills an important psychological and mythological need of our time. Parents, Counselors and Educators could all profit by its commonsense and timeless wisdom. Stephenson takes the reader through this zone with expertise, compassion and some darned good storytelling!”
--Stephen Larsen, Ph.D. and Robin Larsen Ph.D
Stephen Larsen is Professor Emeritus of Psychology (SUNY) and the author of THE SHAMAN'S DOORWAY and THE MYTHIC IMAGINATION, and with Robin, A FIRE IN THE MIND: THE LIFE OF JOSEPH CAMPBELL-THE AUTHORIZED BIOGRAPHY, and THE FASHIONING OF ANGELS, PARTNERSHIP AS SPIRITUAL PRACTICE. The Larsens co-direct the Center for Symbolic Studies, a 501 (c) (3) that works with Youth at Risk, as well as many educational programs for young artists,
dancers and athletes.

“Why does America insist on pumping billions of dollars into models for helping young men make the transition to adulthood? Stephenson says we have ignored the lessons of our many ancestors, who devised a strategy for that rite of passage and stuck with it. The author pieces together a wealth of information on ancient ritual and how corporate America has led the charge to abandon those rituals”
--YOUTH TODAY: The Newspaper on Youth Work (Oct. 2004)

 

Now Available! Bret Stephenson's

Slaying the Dragon

The Contemporary Struggle of Adolescent Boys:
Modern Rules in An Ancient Game

$16.95 (plus tax & shipping) 357 pages/paperback

**10% of Net Profit will be donated to Labyrinth Center**
Contents Below....

Slaying the Dragon Contents:

Introduction

Chapter One:
Adolescence 101
Adolescent Development:
The Search For Identity
Individuation and Leave-Taking Behavior
Paradox & Abstracting
Puberty
Idealism: That’s Not Fair!!
Pride
Egocentric
Sex
Non-Ordinary States of Consciousness
Ceremony & Ritual

Chapter Two:
Adolescent Discontent
How Its Been Done Elsewhere
What the Heck Happened?
Them vs. Us
The State of the Adolescent Nation
Education

Chapter Three:
The Loss of Initiation
Adulthood vs. Manhood
Pseudo-Initiations
Survival vs. Thrival
Changing the Rules
No One Person is to Blame
Elders
Fathers
Single Moms
Life, Death, and Rebirth
Is Mystery Acceptable?

Chapter Four:
Rites of Passage
“Rights” of Passage
Ego Death
Boys and Girls
Craving a Craving
The Sequence and the Context
Gangs and Rites of Passage
Sports and Rites of Passage
The Military as Rite of Passage
Modern Developmental Thinking
Self Ornamentation
Public or Private?

Chapter Five:
The Hero’s Journey
The Monomyth Model
Conventional Slumber
Call to Adventure
Threshold of Difficulty
Discipline and Training
Culmination of the Quest
Return and Contribution
Recrossing the Threshold
Refusing the Call to Adventure
The Hero’s Journey as a Treatment Model
Ritual and Ceremony
What’s the Difference Between Ceremony and Ritual
Spirituality
The Hero’s Journey Continues…

Chapter Six:
Modern Rules in An Ancient Game
Adolescence as a Shadow Piece
Fatherlessness
ESL: Emotion as a Second Language
No Fear!
School
School Throughout History
Graduation as Success?
School as Parent
Television as Parent and Educator
The Citizenship Tool
Graduation as Initiation?
School’s Out

Chapter 7:
Treatment vs. Prevention
Background: Restraints, Special Treatment Program
American, Central, National, and Base Camps,
Nightwatch,
Staff Hierarchy
The Nitty Gritty
War Stories
Legal Wrestling
Devil Worshippers
Runaways
Edward the Tracker
Stolen cars
Gangs
Horror Stories
What Behavior Management Doesn’t Teach

Chapter 8:
Nuts & Bolts Approaches
The Brick Wall
What is Success Anyway?
Communication Strategies: Horizontal Communication, Whatever!!,
Metaphors, Playing Chess, Ask Me, Don’t Tell Me,
Threats, Getting Sidetracked
Behavior Change: The Tools, Consequences, Ways to Change Behavior,
Skateboarding Is Not a Crime: It’s a Drug,
Rules About Rules,
Humor

Chapter 9:
Transpersonal Approaches
Labyrinths
The Journey®
Sacred Sites: Fire Area and Altars
Storytelling
Containers: Graduation Bundle, Release Bundle, Prayer Ties
Boxes: Intention Box, Giveaway Box, Cluebox
Creation: Rock Cairns, Masks, Drums & Drum Building, Power Shields
Processes: Guided Imageries, Poetry and Lyrics, Sweat Lodge, Vision Quest,
Tattoo Removal, Restitution, Magic

Chapter 10:
And The Answer Is…
One Right Way?
The Merry-Go-Round Continues

INDEX
BIBLIOGRAPHY
SUPPLEMENTAL BIBLIOGRAPHY

 

* Computed on a quarterly basis

 

Last Updated March 20, 2005